Social media is a common fact of life for many people. They don’t think much about what they’re sharing or how it will be perceived. However, while that approach might be sufficient for many periods of a person’s life, it’s almost never appropriate when someone is divorcing.
The things a person says and shows on social media can greatly impact their divorce proceedings. Even seemingly innocent posts, pictures and comments may have a negative effect, so it’s typically best for a person who’s divorcing to limit their social media activity until their divorce is finalized.
Impact on asset division
Posts on social media can may offer insights into a person’s lifestyle. They may even make a person’s spending habits known. This can play a role in the division of assets if it appears that someone is hiding assets or is living a lavish lifestyle when they claim they don’t have a significant income.
Anyone who’s going through a divorce should be especially careful about posting pictures or information about luxury vacations, expensive purchases or anything similar because of the risk of that information negatively affecting their property division settlement.
Effect on child custody
Child custody decisions are based on the best interests of the child, and social media activity can significantly influence these decisions. Posts showing inappropriate behavior, substance abuse or neglect can be brought up in court to question a person’s fitness as a parent.
Even seemingly harmless posts, such as frequent late-night outings, can be scrutinized if they suggest a lack of stability or attention to a child’s needs. Both parents should be mindful of their online behavior, as it can impact custody arrangements.
Avoiding the temptation to post on social media during a divorce is often the best course of action. Even if a person deletes posts that might be problematic, there’s a chance that information is already in the hands of the other party. A legal representative can assist a person going through a divorce with determining what, if any, social media activity is suitable during divorce.
